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recently God has seemed to be opening doors for ian to receive new types of therapies and be seen by a new physician. we’re praying that these changes are fruitful for us and equip ian with what he needs to keep making progress.
thank you, always
i&l
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we were recently asked to write two guest blog posts for Power of the Home. Our first ran this week – you can check it out here. look for post two later this week!
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“For I know that my redeemer lives, and at the last he will stand upon the earth. And after my skin was been thus destroyed, yet in my flesh I shall see God, whom I shall see for myself and my eyes shall behold, and not another.” Job 19:25
we found ourselves at a cottage this weekend, and are now getting to enjoy a warm morning on the porch. i was looking forwarding to morning, knowing that mercies would be anew. when i asked ian what he would like to post about, he said prayer requests and specifically that he would be able to walk.
thank you, always
i&l
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On Friday after work, it was warm in the 70s, the end of the day was on my mind followed by two more work-less days. Driving home with the windows down, I watched as people were jogging, playing tennis, sliding down the homemade slip-n-slide outside their college apartments. My desires to “do something” were growing. And I was so glad to not be at work.
But then I got home and saw Ian sleeping, so tired from his cold, and not able to go for a run with me. Or even a walk. And his disability again freshly became mine. And I had to try to fight to let my desires to go out and enjoy something die.
This is what it’s like to be married to someone with a tbi. I imagine it’s the same for someone who is chronically sick, or has special needs, or who is dying. Their sickness becomes their spouses sickness. I have a brain injury, just like Ian. Because when we became one flesh, I gained his sorrows. Just as Jesus was a man of sorrows and has shared in them with us, I share them with Ian. And while it is a gift of marriage, it is painful and sad.
We could probably write a whole book on this topic alone. Because it changes everything about our life, even mine. But Jesus knows it more deeply than us, and if we can just rest there, we will be filled.
Thank you, always
Larissa
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